Seriously?

I can’t believe it has been 4 months since I’ve updated this blog. Well, actually I can believe it because I’ve been dating someone new for about 4 months. When I get into a new relationship I tend to forget about everything and everything that involves the internet. I checked my google reader and had over 1,100 posts that I’d not read.

In other news, I am moving in August. Same town but new location. Moving out of a house with a 2 year old will hopefully mean I can have much louder and much kinkier sex. I’ve yet to introduce kink into my current relationship but we’ve talked about it and she seems interested. Here’s hoping that she likes it once I get the privacy to show her what I’ve been talking about.

Maybe I will post an HNT this week but I can’t promise. I do miss everyone terribly and hope to start writing again soon. <3

Happy HNT!!!

My vice.

Next time I promise more boobies but this week you get bears.

My first flight

A couple of weeks ago I had the pleasure of meeting some beautiful ladies, Mistress Musette and her girl sub_blue at a munch in town. After telling them of my first experience at 1763 (a swinger’s night, not my happy), they insisted on having me join them for the weekend to attend the Whippersnappers play party and wax demo by Tenderdom_atl. Blue picked me up around 4 on Saturday and we were in Atlanta by 5:30 where we had a lovely supper prepared by MM. After supper we got dressed and headed to the club.

I escorted MM’s husband PurpleHaze since there’s an age limit on Whippersnapper events and during conversation I mentioned that one of the things I have wanted to do for the past couple of years was a rope suspension. It was also mentioned that Tat would be there and might possibly be able to make that dream come true. The first 30 minutes or so after getting to the club I was introduced to a lot of people and shown about the club. In the dining room I finally had the pleasure of meeting Tat and MM and PH brought up the idea of suspending me. Like any good husband, he suggested I clear it with his wife first so we made our way back into the entrance room and brought the idea up to Joi who is a fellow greeter.

I need to mention before I continue, that I was lucky to meet not just Joi, but two other FetLife greeters, Izzabelle and Lizzybrat. It was such a pleasure to meet some of the other folks that have devoted so much of their time and energy into making FetLife and awesome place. Everyone was so nice and welcoming!

Back to the story though- soon after my intro with Joi, Tenderdom began his wax demo. It was amazingly informative and it gave me an itch to try something new. Unfortunately, I was wearing glitter body powder which contained metal so no wax play for me that night. Once the demo was over, people dispersed and began setting up to play. I sat back and watched people talking and watched a few folks begin to play. As I was wandering about I saw Tat suspending himself to test the ropes. At that moment I knew that I wanted him to be the first person to take me up. Not only did it demonstrate that he was very sure of his rope skills, but it showed that he was concerned about the safety of those he would be suspending. We started talking about the type of rope he was using and the way he processed his rope and Joi came up to see if he was going to take me up. They talked for a few minutes and it was decided that he would. I asked them to take it easy on me, since it was my first time, and we talked about a few safety issues that I was already familiar with being fan of rope.

I removed my corset and heels and Tat started tying. He had to tell me to look up so I wouldn’t get whipped in the eye with the ends, but it was difficult for me to listen because I am always itching to learn new ways to tie rope. He tied a chest and hip harness, and tied my right thigh and left ankle. Being lifted off of the ground was not as painful as I expected it to be. Being suspended was absolutely amazing and it took me a few minutes to adjust and actually realize that this was actually happening to me. It may have been longer than I realize because Tat had to tell me that I was able to move in the ropes. Joi came back around and she gave me some tips on what I could do with my body to move around. It was absolutely amazing to be able to move and spin faster or slower depending on my movements. When I came down from the rig I my legs felt like Jell-O and I was freezing cold, but happier than I can remember in a long time. I cannot thank Joi and Tat enough for helping me have such a wonderful suspension experience.

PH took me into the dining room to grab a snack and have some water to recharge for the rest of the evening. Believe it or not, being tied up can really take it out of you. After warming up a bit and having some food I asked PH if he wouldn’t mind playing for a bit. He agreed and we decided on spanking and flogging. We looked around for one of the more private rooms but they were all in use so we chose a bench in the main play space. I really enjoyed playing with PH, but unfortunately due to all the movement of folks walking about and the sounds of others playing I couldn’t really get into a proper head space to be able to enjoy the pain that I was receiving. He kept checking in on me and we decided to end the scene when things got a little too intense for me to handle. Then came aftercare and snacks. There were really awesome snacks there.

Around 1:30am we decided to call it a night and head back home. I have never slept go well in my entire life. I cannot wait for another opportunity to see all the wonderful people I met. It was a fantastic experience and it’s the first community that I feel like I fit into since I moved back from NYC.

Thanks again to Tat and Joi, MM and PH, Blue, Izzabelle, Tenderdom, Whippersnappers, and all the other wonderful folks I met. I have been beaming for a week and I’ve still got the bruises to prove it!

You make me nervous

I am about a half hour away from doing my 2nd ever professional modeling shoot. I modeled once in high school for a knock off American Eagle type company but the pictures were never used because not all the other kids that shot got consent forms. Today I am doing semi-nude shots. My roommate is a professional fetish model and one of the photographers she likes to shoot with likes curvy girls so since he is down here shooting with her he is going to be shooting me as well.

Honestly, I am nervous as fuck. Sure, I have racey photos on the internet. Those that have read my blog from the beginning or that have gone back far enough have seen my breasts, but I honestly have no idea what this guy is looking for. I know he likes spread shots, but he is not paying me nearly enough for that. So I am sitting here trying to prepare and hoping the photos come out well enough to post here.

Anyway, I know I have been away for a while. I have no computer and I hate asking my roommates to use theirs so the posts will be few and far between. But I am saving up and should have something of my own soon.

Hope everyone is well.

Bunnies, bunnies, bunnies, bunnies everywhere.

I consider myself somewhat of a sex toy aficionado. My friends come to me for advice on which ones they should buy and how they should clean/store the ones they own. I am also a bit of a toy snob, I steer away from those that are marketed as novelties and generally order from Babeland, Goodvibes, or Vibe Review, stores that offer safer sex advice and extensive information on the toys they sell.

I bought my first rabbit vibrator about a year and a half ago. I had some extra cash and I was browsing around a new adult store in my town that stocked the Rabbit Habit at a relatively low price so I decided to pick it up. Needless to say, I was not impressed. The toy was covered in a slick film that is indicative of an old toy made with phthalates and the rotating head made my cervix curl up in terror like a dead spider. I used the thing maybe twice before I decided to toss it and call it a loss.

Recently, however, I have been thinking that maybe I should give rabbit vibrators another try. So when I saw the G-Spot Rabbit Vibe I was pretty excited. I am a g-spot girl and after a misunderstanding which lead to me melting my Hitachi g-spot attachment I was eager to find a toy to do the job that had been sorely neglected for months.

I ordered my new toy on the 1st and by the 4th it was on my doorstep. I took no delay in opening my new toy and inspecting it’s features:

Some things I liked about the toy at first inspection were the color, the removable battery pack, and the girth. The toy is made out of thermoplasic rubber so the smell was pretty horrendous but a thorough washing made it a bit more bearable. It’s my first toy made of TPE and I chose it because it is phthalate free. I also liked the fact that the head did not rotate but still had the feature of rotating pearls. The bunny was also placed a lot closer to the shaft of the vibrator so it pressed up against my clitoris quite nicely.

Upon using the G-Spot Rabbit Vibe I noticed that the vibrations coming from the rabbit were really nice. So nice, in fact, that I had a clitoral orgasm from them. This is kind of a big deal because I am a Hitachi girl and those vibrations are strong. The Rabbit Habit never gave me a clitoral orgasm but this guy did. Unfortunately, the g-spot feature was not anything to write home about. The shaft’s vibrations were not enough to get me to the point I need to be at to have a g-spot orgasm. It was nice, but nice is all I can say about it.

All in all I can say that I am happy to own this toy. While not being a rabbit vibrator fan, this toy is discreetly quiet, well designed, and serves it’s purpose. Plus, it’s got strobe lights that my roommate described as “like a rave for your vag”.

links for 2008-09-21

• LUSTY LADY: my Vote-o-Booth photos
  Seriously. this woman makes me drool.
  (tags: sexy vote RKB LustyLady crush)

Lolita makes me meme

Take a picture of yourself right now
Don’t change your clothes, don’t fix your hair… Just take the picture
Post the picture with no editing
Post these instructions with your picture

Idea swiped from Lolita.

links for 2008-09-19

• Waking Vixen » Blog Archive » Dacia’s Love Machine: My New Short Film!
  (tags: AudaciaRay sextoys film)
• Bloviating on Blowjobs
  Because there is a difference between BDSM and choking a bitch. And that difference is an arraignment hearing.
  (tags: funny bdsm sex TheSnarlingMisanthrope)

links for 2008-09-14

• Bad Parent: Clothing Optional. I let my toddler run around naked. By Ellen Friedrichs for Babble.com.
  "Aside from streaking on a dare at sixteen, and attending an "underwear" party a number of years back, I can't claim to have had a lot of experience with public nudity. My two-year-old daughter, Clementine, on the other hand, is already making quite an impression in the parks we frequent by doffing her clothes at every opportunity." via Lusty Lady
  (tags: parenting nudity)

Location

In my newly acquired singleness I have realized the importance of location. Less than 1 week after breaking off my engagement I got to know, meet, and fuck an amazing boy. Maybe it was luck or fate or chance, but we hit it off splendidly. During the first week with said boy, I experienced fucking in a sex club, going to a leather party, and attending an LSM meeting among other things. The next week I was spanked, tied, and flogged at a rope party. There was also a failed attempt at being fisted, many nights of making out on the subway, and lots and lots of bruises.

Since being back home, I am really beginning to miss NYC. I hated the city for the majority of my stay but I think I just hadn’t found the functions and people that I needed to find yet. Here, while there are plenty of guys who want to fuck me, there isn’t that sense of community that I felt in NYC. The guys that want to play with me talk a lot about BDSM and some of them mean it, but I get the feeling that BDSM is just a means to an end (fucking). Maybe I haven’t met the right people here but I honestly feel a sense of alienation. Unless I want to commute an hour and a half to the largest city in the state there aren’t a lot of places to go and meet kinky folks. There also don’t seem to be a lot of resources available to queer kinky folks.

Now I am kicking myself for not exploring the city more and enjoying the resources available to kinky folks. I have been toying with the idea of moving back sometime after I finish grad school. Hope all the awesome folks I met are still around at that time. I miss you all more than I can say!

By the way, I am also pleased to announce that I one of the contributors to an amazing blog called Best Sex Bloggers. I will be posting more frequently here and there in the coming weeks. Have a lot of pieces I am working on, both fiction and non, but everyone should really check out the authors on the site as they truly are some of the best sex bloggers on the net.